Title: Crisis
Description: PLEASE read & help!!!
Silver Chaos Adept - February 17, 2004 01:58 PM (GMT)
Okay. This boy I like? Well, my mum has his phone number (she knew his parents) so I could phone him..... but I haven't seen him since primary school! What the hell do I say to him?! And I want to ask him if he has a girlfriend, but what do I say? 'Hello Jack, do you have a girlfriend at the moment?' I can't say that!!! It's pathectic!! HELP MEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!
Chaos_Hell - February 17, 2004 02:02 PM (GMT)
you know I'm a boy and If he does have a G/F he shouldn't mind if you ask him I'f he has a G/F . Just start up a conversation and go on to the B/F and G/F stuff
Silver Chaos Adept - February 17, 2004 02:17 PM (GMT)
How though? I haven't seen him for f****in' ages..... What could I talk about?
SuicuneSol - February 17, 2004 02:56 PM (GMT)
Well let's see Silver. How old is he? He's of your grade right? Ask him how he's been doing and stuff and he'll reply with his statement. After that your conversation will just kind of flow to the point where he becomes acquainted with you and he knows who you are.
And then maybe if you have a birthday or something you could invite him to show you're his friend.
Then after that he'll probably be coming to you for outings knowing you're with him.
That's as far as I'll go.
But let me tell you another thing, If I'm wrong about I'm sorry. I'm doing the best I can.
Marlin ßeta - February 17, 2004 06:14 PM (GMT)
Why does your mother want you to go dating some guy you don't know? That doesn't make sense. -_-
Silver Chaos Adept - February 17, 2004 07:29 PM (GMT)
What Marlin? You confused me there. Yeah, I guess you're right Suicune. But.... I don't really converse very well..... but thanks!!! I'll try phone him sometime.... if my parents ever get off the phone. <_< Plus I may have to try stop myself chickening out.
SuicuneSol - February 17, 2004 11:29 PM (GMT)
Yeah I thought you'ed say something like that. You come up with a plan, then you need to figure out how you're going to get yourself to do the plan. I'm shy. Very shy.
If I had a cure for shyness I'd write a book about it right now. Sorry :( .
Lor - February 17, 2004 11:31 PM (GMT)
silver ill be eternaly impressed with you if you call him up and say hey baby whats shakin
Max - February 18, 2004 01:32 AM (GMT)
Silver, what are you so worried about? It's a GUY you're talkin about...sheesh...none of us care if you start flirting with us on the phone. Actually, we like that kind of stuff. Say "hey baby whats shakin" like Alex MA suggested, and the reaction would most likely interest him if he's single, or he'd just shrug it off and not think much of it. Do you have anything to lose? He ain't gonna yell at you or anything for it...at least, I don't think so. I know I wouldn't.
Silver Chaos Adept - February 18, 2004 10:45 AM (GMT)
Alex MA- you must be joking. I would never have the guts to do that. Why, WHY am I cursed to be such a coward??!!! *screams loudly*
Anyway..... I need to actually get at the phone first. My parents use it a lot. <_<
Marlin ßeta - February 18, 2004 06:41 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Alex-Master Adept @ Feb 17 2004, 06:31 PM) |
| silver ill be eternaly impressed with you if you call him up and say hey baby whats shakin |
:D That would be crazy!
Silver Chaos Adept - February 18, 2004 06:52 PM (GMT)
I can't picture myself doing that. :sad:
Swordmaster - February 19, 2004 02:11 AM (GMT)
Neither can I but I'm brave and I would do it. So you should say like "how is it going (whatever his name is) I haven't seen you for a while." *wait for response* "Say... you want to come over to my house sometime?" then he'll probably say if he doesn't have a G/F yet "sure" if he does "I have my own G/F now sorry". Good luck!!
Cupid's arrow has struck home...
*Sighs*
Max - February 19, 2004 02:15 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE |
| Neither can I but I'm brave and I would do it |
So you would ask Silver's crush out? Umm....::backing away from Swordmaster:: well Silver, all I can say is don't worry about it so much. Trust me. But I don't think I'd have courage enough to ask a girl out over the phone...actually, I almost did once, but I was afraid of what her reaction would be. Girls are so frightening...
Swordmaster - February 19, 2004 02:21 AM (GMT)
I know what you mean Max I've done it acouple times myself. Only the girls that are angry house wives are scary because they chase you half way across the city with a pitchfork... scary thought.
Silver Chaos Adept - February 19, 2004 04:26 PM (GMT)
Well.... I hope he doesn't have a girlfriend. Well, I'll try phone him tonight. Wish me luck guys!
Alex the Evil - February 19, 2004 05:00 PM (GMT)
Good luck! And be on while you do that, give us commentry... heehee... or just give us details the next day.
Swordmaster - February 19, 2004 05:44 PM (GMT)
Silver Chaos Adept - February 19, 2004 07:27 PM (GMT)
YES!!! YES!!! YES YES YEEEEESS!!!!! I HAVE A DATE!!!!!! WOOHOOO!!!!!! *jumps up and down* GO ME!!!!! LIFE IS GREAT!!!!! God.... he sounds so much older now...... I phoned him, and talked for a while, then at the end I asked him if he had a girlfriend, and he said no. Then he phoned me back a few minutes later asking me out!!!!!! I AM SOOOOO HAPPY!!!!! :D
Guest - February 19, 2004 08:13 PM (GMT)
Nice job Silver!!!!!!!!!!!! Looks like myyyy advice paid off... you can thank me later.
Swordmaster - February 19, 2004 08:14 PM (GMT)
I forgot to log in the guest above me is me Silver!
Silver Chaos Adept - February 20, 2004 09:35 AM (GMT)
Alex the Evil - February 20, 2004 02:08 PM (GMT)
Silver Chaos Adept - February 20, 2004 02:16 PM (GMT)
Max - February 21, 2004 10:40 PM (GMT)
^_^ Congratulations, Silver. This is your first date, no? Well, tell us how it goes...and don't worry, we'll understand if we see you less often. Finally, you don't have to like any of us like that any more. Now I feel like asking a girl out...but...I can't take my own advice. Girls are so frightening...
SuicuneSol - February 22, 2004 08:12 AM (GMT)
Silver, I must congratulate you on your efforts. Not sure if you used any of my tips but it does not matter in the least to me. What matters is your happiness. Now all you must do is figure out what to do on your "outing".
Silver Chaos Adept - February 22, 2004 11:16 AM (GMT)
We just talked and stuff. ^_^ Oh, Suicune? DON'T CALL ME MISS SILVER!!! :angry: LOL Max, maybe you should just try.
SuicuneSol - February 22, 2004 05:40 PM (GMT)
I'm sorry :sad: . How about Silver-sama? Or just......plain Silver....
Jaken Veina - February 22, 2004 05:50 PM (GMT)
You know, the same kind of thing happened to me. There was this one girl i was really good freinds with in like Preschool, then I moved away. Then.this summer, we were passing through on our way homw frm a wedding, and I'll be damed if my parent's didnt' want to stop and she still lived there. :blink:
Arcanna - February 22, 2004 08:14 PM (GMT)
thats great silver! what are you gonna do with your hair? what are you gonna wear? you must tell me!!!!!
Max - February 23, 2004 12:24 AM (GMT)
Whoa slow down! Let's not be too invasive on Silver's personal life...She'll give details if she wants.
Silver Chaos Adept - February 23, 2004 11:22 AM (GMT)
Heh.... I did wash my hair and brush it so it looked golden. And I wore this grey top with 'Mind over Matter' written on it, and black trousers with devil written on them in red.
Oh Suicune, Silver-sama is fine. You may call me that, mortal. ^_^
SuicuneSol - February 23, 2004 03:00 PM (GMT)
Are you a gothic type of person, Silver-Sama?
Silver Chaos Adept - February 23, 2004 04:31 PM (GMT)
Hardly. ^_^ Those just happen to be my nicest clothes. ^_^
Death Aven - February 23, 2004 06:27 PM (GMT)
Hay i can dig it ^_^ :} :D
Silver Chaos Adept - February 23, 2004 06:58 PM (GMT)
:blink: I'll ignore that. Anyway, on a completely random note from something I've never seen;
JOHNNY FIVE IS ALIVE! NO DISSASEMBLE!
Swordmaster - February 24, 2004 08:41 PM (GMT)
Death Aven - February 24, 2004 08:46 PM (GMT)
^_^ I was not playing I like those colors!
:unsure: And who's jonny 5????? :D "TELL MEA NOW". HAHAHAHAAAHAAA.....
:unsure: I'll stop now....... :...: