I am going to Utica, NY for another out of state wedding this weekend. I will probably be offline from Friday through Sunday. Please behave. I do not want to reign destruction down when I come back.

See you guys.

^ you must be a married priest or something, with all those weddings eh eh :D

No all my wifes cousins are in their mid 20's and all getting married in the next 2 years.

^ that make sense, we also experience those waves once in a while B)

and of course noe of them live locally, either Utica NY, or MD.

Well have fun at the wedding! The best part of the wedding is when the bride toss the flowers and the women fight for it! :lol: It so funny! The second best part is the food :D

Haven fun ^^
jhope you will be back soon :lol:

*starts rubbing hands together* muahahahaha no destruction indeed. anyway thats cool have a fun time weddings are boring. and thank the people who set it up bc that stuff hard work.

^ :lol: Oh my gosh I never get on the red area, ( I don't want to get slaped eh eh) if the flowers don't come my way.. sorry for the flowers


have fun! :P

i never participate in that thing, becuase im too young...
but i want a bf <_<

^ well sherry your time will come! B) just wish for the best :)

thx ^^

Have a good time ^_^

oh no! all the important questions i have will go unanswered! oh... wait... thats right, i havent used the dear malach thread in weeks. then good riddens! :P :lol: anyway have fun

Have fun Malach!

I'll be sure to go on double-duty to make up for your absence :lol:

Hopefully, it won't come to that.

Try to fun fun at the wedding! ;)

don't have too much fun! ;)

hurry back

yeah have fun i hate weddings because its boring but i like weddings for the food

^ Spanish wedding are not boring at all, you party until sunrise and move your grill until you can't be on your feet no more. :lol:

others are pretty boring like my famalies

have fun! :balloon: :balloon:

I'm Back.

How was your trip? :P

It was a rollercoaster of emotions, and also very tiring.

so you survived, well I hope that everything worked out pretty well!

OK here's the story. It is about a 5 1/2 hour drive to Utica from where I live. We left Friday morning, the wedding was on Saturday. This whole time my wife Grandmother (92) had been very sick and in and out of the Hospital. She has just goen back in earlier in the week with Heart and Kidney Failure. We got there and immediatley found out through my wife grandfather that she had taken a turn for the worse and requested to not be hooked up to machines anymore and to die in peace, which the Drs. had done that morning. She knew the wedding was this weekend, and that the whole family would be up. The Doc's expected her to die that morning. She told Grampa, that she would live long enough to see all her grandchildren, and not ruin the wedding. We saw her the morning of the wedding. She got to see her us all and her only great-grandchildren (Our kids). She was in really bad shape, but whe she saw my kids she came right out of the pain to give them kisses, and say goodbye.

We went to the wedding and had a really good time. The next morning, her last requst was to have everyone at her bedside as she died. She then went into a somewhat vegeative state, her only reaction a smile when my 1 year old daughter kissed her goodbye for the last time. A priest came in and gave her Last Rites Immediatley after that, she stopped breathing, and her heart stopped 5 minutes later. She died very peacefully, surround by her huge family, in this little hospital room.

It was very sad, awe-inspiring, and beautiful all at the same time.

welcome back :lol:

I consolidate with you, I also had an experience with unploging the life machine (in our case was for a very very close friend's 2 years old child :(

Thank you.

You are welcome :)