OK I'M REALLY UPSET AND I CAN'T BELIVE HOW BAD MY HEART IS BREAKING RIGHT NOW. I'VE HAD BREAK UPS BEFORE BUT NOT LIKE THIS. SO THIS IS A TOPIC FOR THOSE WHO HAVE THEIR HEART BROKE AND PEOPLE TO CONSOLE THEM DO NOT PUT ANYONE DOWN OR I WILL REPORT YOU DON'T EVEN TRY ME.

i was engaged to this guy for over 2 months and he broke it off. well he told me to call him 2 days after the break off and said he realized he needs me and misses me and he promises to never leave me again. and cause i was so in love with him and had put everything into that relatioship i went back well guess what he's leaving yet again and my heart allready not healed from the last time is now breaking once again. i'm so sick of being lied to and broken promises that i'm ready to give up on love and life. Now i feel like i can't trust anyone abot love or anything anymore. the song "Fearless" by Neurosonic right now is how i feel. i had saved up all my moeny to go up and live with him but guess thats out of the question.

lizz dont let him bother you so much. if he's too stupid to see that you are awesome and he cant do any better then be with you he is not worth your time. i know its hard to have a break up with someone you cared about and gave your heart too. but your young and your heart will heal in time and you will love again even though you will be apprehensive and hesitant to at first.

your like what 15, 16 listen that was his fault that he broke it off but to tell the truth you are way to young to be engaged i was engaged once apon a time but i ended up breaking it off knowing it was a mistake and im almost 15 my fault of course but listen he broke up with you its not your fault its his he is missing out even though i do not know you that well i know he will be missing out on something....

Of course your heart will hurt for awhile but eventually the pain will go away so just tell yourself the truth that it wasnt your fault you will find lover again we all do

I know who your talking about, Lizz.
Anyway, yeah Sora is right, you are to young to be engaged, and if that boy breaks it off with you, then he wasn't right for you in the first place. Just wait and one day the perfect man will come for you.
I know it hurts, but over time it will heal. I'm sorry about your break-up.

Sora and Naerwen are both right 16 is too young to be Engaged and to live with someone even if I have seen it work out it is still to young. I am Sorry he broke it off but he was a total Idiot. I don't know you that well but as far as I do you are a really nice person and anyone would be a fool to break up with you!
Your Heart will mend though and you will find someone better and until then I know every one here is here for you
*huggles* :D Terri

they're all right Lizz
the guys a jerk, and if he can't see how awesome you are, he isn't worth it, you're too good for him.
I know that you're hurting, and I know that it's hard, but you can get through. All of us here will help you and you have your friends. Just talk to them and they'll help you.
If in a while it still hurts as much as it does now then talk to him, but I suggest you talk to him, but don't get so serious again straight away, start out slow, just like you did when you were first dating. You'll both be older and more mature, maybe now just isn't the time for you two.

I hope that helps
lots and lots and lots of hugs!!

Hes gona miss out on a gr8 girl...i tell myself tht each time i get dumpd, well the last break up didn't go well!! I was in serious depression...the crying was the worth..but u always get over it even if its hard. Guys rn't worth it...no affence!!!

thanks guys it helps a whole lot. this topic is for anyone who has heart break and doesn't seem to be able to get over it.

I have had heart break several times, but i got over it no one likes heart break i dont like it at all it just makes you depressed and it seems you cant trust any one for awhile

yeah thats how it feels now, he want talk to me. he said not to talk to him ever again cause he could care less at this point

Then dont talk to him ever again if he has decided to break a great girls heart then thats his problem if he doesnt want to talk to you again thats another problem of his, it will hurt for awhile more but then you will be able to move on.

.........................why would no one want to date you? especially if you treat your girlfriends the way you sounds like you would and the way you rp.

Well i treat every girl with respect and i guess no girl wants to date me cause in my area that judge more on appearence then how a person really is, But i dont mind being alone of course i dont like it and its hard to deal with but im fine with it i believe ill find that one person atleast some day maybe in the near future of maybe in the far away future never know...

yeah i know the feeling. i hate it when people care more abotu looks than personality thats stupid no one looks good all the time.

Of course no one does, But really it doesnt bother me to much i mean i look for personality the focus on the looks but thats fine every one is a different person when you live where i live its hard to find good people

where do you live?

Arkansas the state of stupid rednecks

no that would shelby, north carolina. (not were i live) i live a few minutes away. but still in North Carolina.

I beg to differ with both of you, Florida is pretty bad about rednecks. You can't walk anywhere without seeing a bumpersticker or a T-Shirt saying, "The south will rise again"
It gets on my nerves. Plus alot of guys wear those T-Shirts, and I don't date any guy that wears them, because well...most of them dip, and smoke. So its disgusting.

lol still here in arkansas has a bunch of rednecks gets annoying some times but o well, but im sure you will fine some one soon who will treat you way much better then he did

k heres the thing all the southern states such from virginia to florida all the way over to arkansas.

yeah guess thats far lol, i honestly hate people who dip and smoke my mom and grandma smokes my oldest bro dips its annoying

yeah .my school is famouse for the ever lingering smell of old smoke and new smoke and sometimes marijuana (i can't spell so yeah)

I decided years ago that i would never smoke or do any drug of any sort that can harm me and the people around me

ME TO!! i did this D.A.R.E. program Drug Awarness (something) Education. but it was in like 5 and 6 grade

Ha! I had to do D.A.R.E in school. The in late middle school, we had to do a C.A.R.E. program.
Dipping isdisgusting, I gag whenever I see men walking around with a bottle filled with stained brown spit. :indifferent:

plus just eww thinking about it. why are you giong to put something in your mouth when NO ONE Knows all the ingredints of! that makes no sense!!!!

Er..what?

....Weird, please explain your problem


Any who, Lizz you're 16.... I totally thought you were 20 something (You seem too wise to be 16) but seriously, 16 is too young to be engaged (partially the reason why I thought you were 20 something) don't let this get to you, there are far more better people in the world.

well um thanks i think. well i've tottaly over him now and i've moved on. i even have a date tonight. sorry i haven't been on my computer has crashed and i'm on the school's laptop during english class right now.

Get over it, Whitney, and stop attacking him in every topic. It's immature... and makes me think "no wonder he dumped her, she's a crazy psycho stalker person". Just ignore him. Stop attacking him.

Thank you and that is the exact reason i broke up with her she wasnt who i thought she was and i deleted all her post in this thread dont need that kind of stuff around here

ok back on topic!

heartbreaks suck


the end.

Seriously.
Liz that guy = piece of crap.
Simply said.
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I had to deal with my first break up a couple of mounths ago. I had no idea it hurt that bad. :[
Personally before a few mounths ago, I thought people where just kind of acting it out. But ohmygod, I felt so much rejection. That's why i'm actually really enjoying the single thing. I'm a little afraid to have my heart feel so much pressure and rejection again.

haha...the topic starter is the one that broke my heart...i miss her so much, out of curiosity does anyone on here still talk to her...i just...want to know what's going on in her life and stuff...how she's doing...if she's mentioned me at all (im sam by the way)...im sory if im being stupid