Am i expecting to much to be told i'm beautiful and for the person to truly mean it? i love my boyfriend and i really think he's hot and i trust him with my whole heart but last night (the 27) we were talking on the phone and he said that he thought about wanting a better looking girlfriend but that he loved me after he told me i was beautiful. i stayed up all night crying. so am i expecting to much?

i dont think you're expecting got much cuz thats to much to ask. and what kind of a boyfriend says he's think about wanting a better looking girlfriend to there girlfriend? that just...thats just hurtful.

Lizzi,

I'm sorry. I really really am. I love you very much. I really do. And, I don't want to lose you. Losing you would be...devastating. It really would. I never meant to make you cry, and you know that. You are beautiful. To me you are. And if you can't believe that...I'm sorry. I really am. I didn't mean to say that, you know that, right? Please tell me you understand, Elizabeth. Please tell me that you believe me. Yes, I've thought about wanting a better looking girlfriend, I admit that. But I'm also human, Elizabeth. Please understand, that, if I was in a room full of beautiful girls, I'd choose you. You would be the one that I would run to, and hold onto. Those other girls could go jump off a cliff for all I care. I'm speaking from the heart, Elizabeth. I'm telling you the truth. I'm not afraid to admit my mistakes, and my faults to you.

I'm probably not making any sense, am I? Just know that I am very sorry. I love you, and I don't want to lose you. I never meant to make you cry, and you know that. I hate making you cry. Please. Just please, forgive me, Elizabeth. Forgive me for every pain I've caused you. Everytime I've hurt you, forgive me for that. I don't want to lose you over this. You are my entire world. I love you, Elizabeth. Love me in return, and forgive me. Hold me close, and tell me everything is going to be alright. Don't let me fall into a heck that is full of pain, and suffering. Hold me to you, each and every night. Show me a Heaven, filled with love and happiness. I get a peek of that Heaven every time I talk to you. Whenever I hear your voice, I become happy.

I love you, Elizabeth.

Any guy that says they wanted a better looking girl friend he is messed up, i would never do that to a girl friend of mine (if i ever get another one) i mean to be honest no one who says they love you would say that, if they say they love you they wont say that stuff they would think your beautiful no matter what

Leonardo Andromeda, im guessing you are that guy and her fiance? dude you messed up big time ask yourself ask your heart do you really love her if you did you wouldnt have said "ive been thinking of wanting a better looking girl friend" if you say that you dont really love her

Any guy who loved there girl friend would think there beautiful no matter what and when you say you want a better looking girl friend you told her that she wasnt beautiful and honestly if i was her i would have never forgave you but us guys yes we say stupid alot but not something that stupid

Saying that was very wrong and i cant see why she forgave you but she did right? you should be happy apparently she loves you to much to stay mad at you but really ask yourself ask your heart like i said earlier if you really love her cause if you did you wouldnt have said that crap saying that is very low and it makes her feel sad and makes her feel like she isnt beautiful........

thanks for your input and its appreciated but this was a few weeks ago and everything has been resolved but i see what your saying