ok all us girls have had our share of problems with boys but i mean right now i need some help

ok i like this guy right? and i have NO CLUE if he likes me and weve been friends for a while now and he asked me last week if i liked him and i was like uh....no... i mean what else was i spose to say?? YES I LOVE YOU!?!?!?!

and he said GOOD im soo happy u dont like me!

and that basicly like tore my heart out and threw it into a meat shredder
i dont know if i should have said yes, mabye he just thought since i said i didnt like him he would pretend he didnt like me ... i dont know right now i am depressed and im goona see him agian tomoro so what do i do to make him like me?!?! nad i am WAYY to embaressed to tell him i do like him so saying "just tell him" is like terrifying for me! i can us any help i can get!

thx!
-Willow

Well of course im a guy but i think i can help......well us guys if where friends with a girl and we like them and they like us back and we ask that question but get a lie where not going to straight out say "OH GOD YOU JUST RIPPED MY HEART TO PIECES I FREAKIM' LOVE YOU!" cause we arnt going to say that to macho or something i dunno LOL any ways us guys we dont exactly like to say are feelings completely unless we know the girl likes us cause where just as shy unless that guys a geek god geeks are such pansy's....... lol

Tell him how you feel and maybe you will open up i wasnt able to tell my girl friend i liked her till she told me that she liked me so eh lol

But the problem with just telling him is that in case he doesn't like her back it might ruin the friendship.
It's harder when they're a friend, and i've been in your position before Willow, just try to work out how he feels about you...surprisingly, the whole 'getting a friend to ask his friend' actually works
well, it did for me
hope that helped :D

Try asking him why he asked you that say you just can't get it out of your head or something like that. That would be your best bet I would think. I have been through that whole thing before said no and killed my self over afterwards cause he did like me and I did like him. So you don't want to just let it slip like that. and normally when a guy says that it is because he does like you. I hope that makes sense and helps
Huggles
Terri

Well i havn't rlly had any boy probs except my ex BF hatin me n wantin me dead!!! I dn't lik 2 stereotype but wat is with this manly pride of theirs....they'll wait til the other person in the fight says sorry or if they get dumpd the girls name get pushd in the dirt....i seriously cn't understand them!!!!!!!

Help me any1?

Ok...I am a boy and trust me. That so isn't true what he said. All the guys say that, maybe even I have said that myself. Who knows...but inside him he probably cursing himself for saying what he said! =D But...if you really want to know the truth. Just wait for at least a month or so, before he asks you out.

iv been standin away from him recently.....he keeps spreadin stuff bout me n my new BF n m8 wn't hav any of it n i seriously dn't want 2 get them in2 trouble!!!

My ex is paranoid n pathetic....n i jst cn't b botherd with it anymor hes not draggin my life down with his :D

ok i've had my heart broke alot of times recently and it hurts al the same
i told a guy i liekd him, he told me to ask him out at lunch i did he said he'll let me know tomorrow btu that i would love his answer. well everyone thought o yeah he's gong to say yes and everything well i go in and sit down at lunch and he says infront of alllll my friends 'i just want to be friends'. i'm over him now thank god.
a guy i was engaged to broke my heart and then had the nerve to ask me out i took him back and he broke it again that went on fro like about 5 times before i finally got over him.
a guy i had liked for a longtime asked me out finaly then broke my heart saying 'his family hates me' which isn't true because my very best friends is his sister. come to find out he just wanted to date some one else.
a guy asked me out just so he wouldn't have to date this other girl....i really thought he liked me.
i'm sick and tired of getting played and hurt that i'm close to writing the world off.

I know how you feel Willow the same sort of thing happened to me months but,it's like they ask you if you like them wanting to find out before they might make a total fool of themselves.May boyfriends at the min did the same.The first time he asked me, i think he just wanted to know if I liked him.Me being stupid thought he was joking and said no and it broke his heart but the second time he asked me my head wasn't all over the place and I know what my answer would be.It's stupid because my younger brother explained it all to me how embarrasing.You either love them or you hate them.

(Though the last post was in November, I am in desperate need to share my boy troubles/problems)

Alright...

There's this boy, and I really like him. But the problem is in two days, I will never see him again. NEVER.

I am so sad, no lie.

The thing is, I don't know whether I should tell him. I mean, if I don't, I might not know what would have happened if I did tell him.

So I need to make a decision if I should tell him or not, and that decision needs to be made quick.

I, personally and being a guy, would never walk up to a girl and say "Do you like me?". No offense, but that's a bit bland.....I would talk to her. And if she said no, I would definitely not say "good". I'm sorry, Willow. But that guy's a....butt.