How much have you suffered from a crush?

One time, I had a crush, and he somehow found out about it (of course, he told everyone) and made the remaining of that year a living nightmare for me, even waaaaaaay after I stopped liking him... I don't even know what I liked about him, but I'm glad I'm far away from him now. What a jerk.

So, yeah... Try to be smart with your feelings, even though you can't always control who you like.

I'm the kind of person who cannot stand being the loser, and so I just try to keep myself out of that kind of trouble in the first place...

Well... I have really long crushes, so it's really slightly annoying. I've told two boys I've liked them and one... just kinda asked me if it was true and then more ignored it and protended it never happend. And the other ((whom I still like)) was way cool and didn't change at all, even though he knew. I think it actually made him MORE comfortable around me. But this second boy... I know he doesn't like me like that, but I've liked him for three years and it breaks my heart that he knows and doesn't like me. :( He's one of my really close guy friends though...

well, there is one guy. arrg. its a lovehate relationship. it comes and goes. through the summer we were so close, and now we've grown apart and i feel really bad. i mean, sometimes he's so great and he really helps me- and other times he just makes me feel awful. and sometimes he doesn't understand things and he hurts me. =\
i hope we get close again soon. i've liked him for over a year and i know he doesn't want me but i cant get over him and it kills me because i'm really crushed.

Oooof, stupid boys. :\

yea i have this guy i like and i really like him, and so does my friend, we agreed that neither of us would tell him or ask him out, so we could save our friendship but then she went and asked him out. The guy liked botth of us especially em but he didnt know that i liked him so he said yes to my friend and now they're going out and its really hard for me to see them together. it sucks. but needless to say were still friends but not as good friends as we were. so yea that sucks

That does suck- especially that your friend betrayed you ((not trying to make you hate her or anything...)) but it's good that you can be friends still. And to Amit- yeah. Guys are stupid a lot of the time. I've got this love-hate relationship with my neighbor... we've known each other since birth and he's just like my brother. Oh, he's the same age as me. There are times ((usually over the summer, but other times too)) that we'll get these "projects" and work on things for a while, spending a lot of time with it and each other. Then, we just stop. And he's like my annoying brother again! He's even asked me out at the end of one of the projects... I said no because he doesn't really mean it- but honestly... it's annoying.

yea i have a friend like that aswel. weve known each other forever and hes asked me out a couple of times but i said know becasue i think of himas my brother and goin out with someone who is like my brother is wierd, but he understands and were still as close as ever

That's cool. I meant to say my neighbor was like my HIGHLY ANNOYING brother. Lol. But we do love each other like brother and sister- and that's exactly what we are, practically.

But the boy I like (( from up there ^^, no, not heaven or anything- my other post. lol )) he's kinda like that too- but in a less close sorta way... lol. Does that make sense? I'll try to explain... we're close, and we joke around a lot and stuff... but we're not, like, so close that it'd be like dating my brother. Ya know??

Fully understand about broken hearts. One time, I told this gut that I liked him because he was really sweet towards me and talked to me all the time. He never talked to me again. That didn't go so well. :hurt:
So, for about 3 years I have been trying to keep guys away from me. It is probably not the smartest move to make but that seems to be the onything that I can do. It is kind of hard to keep them away though, because of gym class. There seem to be more guys then girls in the senior class. There is one that likes me but I keep him away because he is a disturbing little twarp. He drinks, smokes and is always looking for a little booty. :chair:

Lol. Sorry but that's kinda funny. Well as I think I've said ((might not have, losing track)) I've told two boys I've liked them and nothing's changed between us. They weren't awkward or anything about it.... I mean, nothing moved forward, they didn't ask me out or anything- but they didn't stop talking to me either.

I move a lot, so I'm in a situation where I'm afraid to even build a relationship because someone will eventually get hurt... I'm a pretty jealous person because I don't appreciate myself as much as I'm supposed to, so I don't know if I can handle long-distance relationships... (Yes, I know, that's stupid...)

Hey, I just thought:
Did anyone ever get a broken heart by a celebrity or a fictional character? For example, the actor you like suddenly has a girlfriend, or the character you feel close to finds a love of his own… something like that.

One time my "friend" told everyone who I liked and then lied about it to me before I even found out about it. Once I figured out it was her, I asked her about it and she lied to me. The boy whom I liked at the time found out and told me he didn't like me because I'm fat and ugly.

Thankfully it was two years ago. I still hate the guy and the "friend" that told everyone. I wouldn't say I'm heart broken, though. I'm kind of cold hearted, and I usually don't fall for anyone at all.

Man, I am soory about that. That does truly suck. :console:

Are you serious?! That is so mean! :( He's not even worth liking. Plus, I'm sure you're NOT fat and ugly... That guy is such a jerk...

And I know how you feel about your "loyal friend" because that's how the crush in my first post found out... But that was, like, a billion years ago anyway... So when I look back, I'm like, "What the heck was I thinking? I actually liked that moron? He's gross!"

For those of you, who pay more attention to outer appearance, please just be careful because looks can be deceiving.

To what Yifat said- yeah, the boy was a jerk and I'm sure you're not fat and ugly. To what Yifat said before- YES! Well... not yet.... don't ask. lol. But yeah... outer appearances are really fake because some guy could be the hottest thing, and the biggest @$$hole. I know a boy like that... My camp friend.... she's my best friend and her brother is best friends with that boy. Then she liked him... he was pretty hott... and he was a total jerk to her. But then we all got closer this year and he's not as much of a jerk- but he was.

okay, in 7th grade i fell for me best friend's twin brother. [lets forget that he's totaly gross for a sec]
and anyway it was so weird, and when i stopped liking him he started liking me. :\

but only gross guys fall dor me- which sucks. arg.
i like 10th graders. =[


anway. me friend was really crushed when orlando bloome got married. she cried but i told her he wasn't worth it. now we're obssesed with other stuff, but not as much as she was about orlando.

its hard not to fall in love, and i admit that i have broken hearts, so im gonna take this from a womans point of view, and say that guys are as$holes sometimes

Well, first to Amit- it's ok, only gross guys fall for me too ;) and to Chago... yeah, guys are a$sholes sometimes, and a lot of the times too... but girls can be as well.

totaly. girls are usualy total female doges around "geeky" boys. :\

Yeah... except me, which is why the sucky guys like me- because I'm nice. And then I feel terrible because to get them away I have to be really mean! :'(

I'm basically nice to everyone (I hate saying that... it makes me feel so braggy) so I sometimes give people the wrong idea about my feelings towards them... It’s very awkward.

As to what Amit said about liking someone gross, it’s okay – you can’t always control who you like. :)
In my fan fics (yes, I’m aware that it’s not real, but I’m going somewhere with this :P) my character falls in love with Draco even though she thinks he is the biggest git on the planet, and the same happens to Draco with her.

Some people actually automatically fall in love with someone who they think likes them in the first place… Meaning, just the idea that you mean something to someone else makes you return the love to that person – so you don’t have to feel bad if you like someone “geeky.” lol, I hope that made sense... :D

i'm totally like abby. i hang out with kids from where i live, and they're not really popular around some people, and a few people found it hard to believe that i was spending time with these guys because i like to.
and anyway [having an odd feeling writing this] i really have a LOT of friends. from 5th graders to 12th graders- pretty much a quarter of my school [about 500 people] know me, and i try to be nice to everybody.
but because i belong in so many groups i sometimes feel bad about not spending enough time with people.

off the point, anyway. there's this one dude that likes me- and he sort of grosses me out and i feel bad. i've tried iggnoring him and it's not working- he just tries harder. what should i do?

Well- first of all, it's ok to sound a little braggy because since we don't actually KNOW each other, we've got to DESCRIBE ourselves... anyways...

Well, Amit- I have no idea. I'm having the same problem as you. Because I try to be nice. Mostly in school I'm quiet, but I'm nice. And two of these really "geeky" guys like me, but I don't like them. And they're really not my friends either. And they always say hi and compliment me - especially when I'm talking to other people. Which, as you can imagine, is REALLY embarrassing- and therefor REALLY annoying. What I do is I ignore them, and if they keep trying harder- I feel bad, but I have to be mean and say "I'm talking to someone!" or "I'm busy!" or just to get away... it makes me feel terrible, but I also don't want to give them the wrong impression.... Any other ideas for me?

Well,this week my girlfriend dumped me after we've been togather for like a month and half.
She said that she didnt fell in love with me yet,and now all of the feelings that she felt to me where gone and she likes me as a friend.
Im really depressed but i cant do nothing,although i was a very good boyfriend-she said that.

Well, you can't really help that can you? I mean, you did your best and she still didn't like you. ((not trying to be mean or anything...)) but isn't it better that you two DID break up, rather than having her miserable? And you miserable because she didn't really like you like that? I mean, if you love her, don't you want her to be happy?
::and that's my daily advice:: lol

But now I have a question- do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone you've never met? And I don't mean celebrities, I mean, like- real people you've seen, but never talked to.

I still love her,i have nothing that i hate in her.
She is exactly how I want a girl to be.
And as I said,She Dumped ME,we didnt broke up togather.
sure I want her best,but I think Im the best man for her (I never say things highly about myself,i think its the 1st time im talking like that).


and to your question-
well,you CANT fall in love,you're just having a CRUSH thats it.

About the she dumped you thing, I was trying to be nice ^_^ And you can think that- but she might not. I don't know her, so I've got no idea how she feels. And it's ok to say good things about yourself, it'll make you feel better and that's always good.

And to my question, are you sure about that?

Im trying being as modest as I can.

And yeah im sure about it,cause you cant just love someone if you dunno how he\she acts with you,and you dont know who REALLY is.

And you're doing a good job- but if you're sad, it's always good to list good things about yourself. So go ahead, I want at least TEN good things about yourself. :D

And people fall in love with people who are abusive to them, do they not? So they can still fall in love even if they act badly.

I dont like myself,and in fact im quite antipathetic person.
She is the only one I Love,the others or I Dislike or I dont care about or i care a lil bit about them.
And thats why i wont say 10 good things about me.

And I dont believe about it,Its a crush,trust me.

It's good to say good things about yourself. It boosts your self confidence. But, I'll drop it to 5. FIVE good things about yourself?

I do not believe that a person should "rate" himself,its the others to do that job.

It's called boosting self confidence, now- 5 good things about yourself.

Ill say and you stop annoying like that ok? <_< :lol:
1.Loyal.
2.Caring.
3.Handsome (some say...)
4.Romantic
5.I really dunno :/

Aw, good job. And trust me, it's best to listen to me :D And see, doesn't that make you feel better??

In Fact,it isnt,I dont like talking highly about myself.

Oh well, deal with it. And fyi- you don't have to quote every post. Only if it's been a long time since that was posted.

Lol,I just like Quoting....but if it annoys you ill stop.

Yes, please and thank you.

Have you ever loved someone, and all of the sudden they're gone?

what do you mean they're gone?
like they flew to another country\city?